He said he’d call. That was 3 weeks ago. Now what?
For one year now my dance partner and I have been dancing and about nine months ago we became intimate. We had a lot of fun together and began making plans to take a few vacation days together. The last we spoke was on the phone three weeks ago when he said he would give me a call. He followed that conversation with a text saying Thanks for the well-wishing and he would give me a call. So I waited for a call. I am trying to keep my head clear of stories and worst case scenarios, but this is so completely not like him that I am left wondering what to do next. I am trying to remain relaxed about it and not attract to myself all the images that pass my thoughts, but how can I quiet this tumble of emotions? I sent an email Monday, and today a text that said “I miss you.” I’ve never had no response from him before and am now so confused. Peace? Yeah, I need some of that!!!!
Treating people like adults can be a hard transition if we’ve spent our entire lives taking care or being taken care of. And silence is hard to interpret without going to the worst case scenario.
What would YOU do?
