Dating Relationships

Dating is both a meadow and a minefield: you walk through it enjoying the freedom and fearful of making a misstep. Dr. Rhoberta Shaler answers your questions about the dating life, both online and off to help you clarify your thinking and make good choices. Particularly, she leads you to ask yourself the questions that will help you find a partner with whom you can create an honest, communicative, in-depth relationship.

He said he’d call. That was 3 weeks ago. Now what?

For one year now my dance partner and I have been dancing and about nine months ago we became intimate. We had a lot of fun together and began making plans to take a few vacation days together. The last we spoke was on the phone three weeks ago when he said he would give [...]

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I am saved. Is it wrong to have a boyfriend?

This is a question that creates two other questions, the first just for fun: 1. How would you ever end up with a husband if you didn’t have a boyfriend first? 2. Are you really asking, is it wrong to sleep with your boyfriend before you marry him? The serious answer to question 2 is [...]

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